The present study focuses on a discussion of Wu Zao's friendship during the Jiaqing and Daoguang (1796-1850) reign periods of the Qing dynasty. My research shows that her relationships with women were not limited to female writers who lived within households; One of the special features of her character was that she maintained friendships with female Taoist priest and prostitute as well. In terms of place, most of Wu Zao's friends were educated, upper class women of Zhejiang, and secondly of Jiangsu. From this information we can know the regions in which she was active. The greater part of Wu Zao's friendships were formed and maintained at literary gatherings, where poems and songs were recited and sung, and occasionally composed extempore together, or offered as toasts or gifts. In sum, this research not only presents the circumstances of Wu Zao's friendships and social relations, it also allows an understanding of the nature and style of Qing female relations and gatherings.