The study adopted the standard paradigm of delayed gratification to investigate developmental characteristic and cross-cultural comparison. There is 272 participants, aged from 4 to 6 years old. The results showed that, 1) at the selection stage of delayed gratification, three ethnic showed the same tendency of choice,more than 95% participants choose "delay of gratification"; 2) At the maintain stage of delayed gratification,At aged of 4~5 years old,the waiting time of Bai and Naxi ethnic were significantly longer than Yi; at age of 6 years old, three minorities had no significant difference; 3) Covariance analysis showed that main minority effect was not significant, the main age effect was not significant, and the interaction between minority and age were not significant, with treating language as concomitant variable. On the whole, these results indicate that Yi, Bai, Naxi children age from 4 to 6 years showed considerable value evaluation ability, but the ability of delayed gratification showed the ethnic differences at age from 4 to 5 years old. Results suggest that children’s language and their own life history strategies may account for the difference on delay gratification.