The “stranger,” referring us to both the other and the self, designates a character caught between similarity and difference, identity and detachment. How we regard the stranger is pertinent to how we regard the self and “le regard” of the other. This paper focuses on the interrelation between the mode of vision and the ethical response of the “stranger.” Three types of stranger are analyzed in terms of three diverse ways of seeing the other, and each type is discussed with references to example of contemporary fiction. (1) “The self-alienated” and the pertinent “projective looking” are exemplified with Jean-Paul Sartre's Nousea. (2) “The superfluous” and the pertinent “responsive looking” are discussed with short stories and aphorisms of Franz Kafka. (3) “The traveler” and the pertinent “reflective looking” are analyzed with Italo Calvino's Mr. palomar. The main themes of this paper include: Howe the idea of the stranger is constructed? How such construction is related to the laterity and monstrosity of the other? How the alterity and monstrosity of the other is incorporated into the construction of the self? The author argues that in discussing subjectivity and cultural difference the “quartet mode,” which encompasses the relations of similarity, constract, and contradiction, is more comprehensive and productive than the “binary mode” of “master and slave dialectics” and the “ternary mode” of “mimetic desire.” The “quartet mode” suggests a “field” which surrounds the self and the other, and provides space of dialogue, negotiation, and translation for diverse sides. In the quartet mode, the alterity of the other will not be erased in constructing the self, for the other in such a conception is not merely an abstract category but an active participant of dialogue.