This study explores how traditional social culture and childhood adversity experiences affect researcher's self-identity and subsequent marriages and careers. Furthermore, through
corrective experiences such as spiritual and psychological counseling, we can see the
researcher’s transformation.
This study uses a self-narrative approach. Researcher divide her stories into five parts:
the first part is her family background; the second part is the childhood experience; the third
part is the marital status after adulthood; the fourth part is the process of career transition; and
the fifth part is her healing experience in various aspects.
After the narration, the researcher saw the shackles of culture and ethics passed down
from generation to generation in the family, as well as obedience and obedience that feared
conflict. The voice of self-criticism and the character of constant flattery cover up the true
self, so that the individual cannot grow up soundly, and various physical and mental
symptoms begin to appear. Fortunately, new corrective experiences are involved later,
allowing researcher to experience unconditional respect and acceptance, and then she can
reconstruct her self-identification. And by learning from role models, she can rediscover how
to care for herself and others. Because I understand, I can cover it. Researcher no longer
blame herself for incompetence, no longer resent the rejection or manipulation of others, and can live in harmony with herself and others again.