The movement of Ballroom Dancing depends on the interaction and guidance of holding which is the most important factor to influence the harmony and coordination of the performance of Ballroom Dancing and between dancing partners. It is hard to find any articles discussing the effectiveness of Holding Posture Technigues. In relation to the Symbolic Interactionism and the Exchange Theory, the author finds a guiding and following communication process in Ballroom Dancing Holding. In this communicative process, the dancer transmits messages to the partner by symbol translating and coding, which the receiver then decodes. The Ballroom Dancing Holding is an appropriate method of communication between dancing partners by giving slight gesture through the hands, such as applying different pressures or leading different directions on palms. Because of these kinds of communication, dancers build trust in each other, and further improve their performance.