Funeral attire customs have a long history in China, and many can be traced back to the guidelines set forth in the ancient Yi-li (Ceremony and Ritual) text. In the "Sang-fu" 喪服 (Funeral Attire) section of the Yi-li, the focus of discussion is less on the clothing itself than its underlying significance, which involves the relationships among family members and relatives. The function of funeral attire, it states, is to strengthen family bonds and relationships, which is vital to maintaining soci al harmony on a larger scale. In the present paper, the author discusses the relationship between son and stepfather, and how this relationship is expressed in funeral attire and customs. After clarifying the semantic definition of "stepfather," the author goes on to discuss related customs and culture. The following issues are explored in detail: (1) the relationship between the meaning of "stepfather" and the custom of a man taking the widow of his deceased brother as his wife; (2) the emotional and rational aspects of this custom.