The study is engaged in the exploreation of the culture shock among the married men during the modern society. The role expectation of husband and wife,the attitude toward career women,and the opinion to the social position of women are the main problems being explored. The quantiation method of survey study is used. There are 2440 samples that selected from dufferent part of Taiwan. The result are as follows: 1. The health care and fidelity to the famile are the first concern to the married men for the role expection of both husband and wife. 2. Althought the majority part of married men show positive attitude toward promotion of female position in the changing society, they still value the “Obedience” as the tradition value of women.