Abstract Since several centuries, many famous solutions have been proposed, such as security alliance, functional cooperation, power balance, collective security, international arbitration and the confidence building measures, to avoid the war occurrence between various countries. Accordingly, the confidence building measures is one of the best way which accepted by international society. It makes not only a good achievement between many areas and the country; but also develops many theories and the construction regarding to this issue. Thus, the establishment of the military building measures is the most effective pipeline to reduce intense, misjudge, and misestimate crisis in confidence building measures. This article embarks from the theory connotation, follows three levels of international, region and non-official organization through real diagnosis of analysis, and then discusses its limits, the feasibility and the practical method for the purpose of finding another way to solve the conflict between the cross-straits.