On the influence of Chinese traditional thinking, Bai Ju Yi and Yuan Zhen are both want have a son to continue their business. Therefore, even they already have daughters; it is also a pity thing for them that they do not have a son. Bai Ju Yi and Yuan Zhen are both ever writing many poems that about their love for their children. Beside that, they are both ever experienced the pain that losing their daughter and son and writing many poems that about they have no son. And then, they regard their experiences are as Deng You, so they mentioned Deng You in their poems many times. Therefore, the aritle will research the parent-child relationship of traditional literati in China.