第二次中日戰爭帶給中國人的浩劫與苦難，是許多中國人的共同記憶。為對女性的戰爭經歷做較完整的探究，本文選擇名不見經傳的知識女性范小梵的回憶錄《風雨流亡路：一位知識女性的抗戰經歷》，進行深度研究，由於這本回憶錄是從日記整理而出，難免會有時空交錯的著痕，卻更真實的呈現作者的書寫心情，也是許多記憶文本所沒有的特色。本文試圖從這本書觀察戰爭如何影響剛新婚的范小梵生活，身為知識女性，她是怎麼因應各種情境的改變？是否與男性不同？是否超越了性別藩籬？為了比較觀察，本文除與部分知識女性的戰時記憶略做比較外，也加入一些知識男性的記憶。

The Second Sino-Japanese War brought great calamity and hardships, and became a common memory for many Chinese people. In order to present a more comprehensive view of women's wartime experiences, this article examines a lesser-known memoir of a female intellectual, Fan Xiaofan's Fengyu liuwang lu: yi wei zhishi nuxing de kangzhan jingli (A Life in Exile: A Female Intellectual's Experiences during the War of Resistance against Japan). This memoir consists of a compilation of diary entries. Although it may suffer from the inevitable overlapping of time and space, it provides a more realistic view of the mood and feeling of the author when she was writing the dairy. This special feature distinguishes this text from many other textualizations of memories. This article traces how Fan's memoir shows the war influenced the life of the newlywed Fan Xiaofan. As a female intellectual, how did she face various changes during the war? How did her experiences differ from men's? Or, did the war experience transcend gender differences? For the purpose of comparison, this article not only briefly compares Fan's experiences with other female intellectuals' wartime memories, it also brings in some wartime memories of male intellectuals.