This article examines the characteristics and definition of miao jian廟見 in ancient marrige ceremonies, while clarifying several different assertions about it and tracing their sources. Ancient Confucianists had three definitions for miao jian: 1. The worship of ancestors; 2. The worship of the husband's parents; 3. A prefatory ceremony of the newly married couple before sexual relations. The article leans towards seeing the first definition, i.e. worship of ancestors, as being more reasonable because Chinese society stresses ancestor worship as necessary for maintaining a link with ancestral souls. Research of the second definition has turned up contradiciory documentation and fails to explain the importance of ancestor worship. The third definition is basde on the assumption of the wife's chastity and unquestioning obedience of the husband's orders, an assumption that is not prevalent until the Han dynasty.