本研究的主要目的是藉由探索婚姻施暴者的個人生命故事，來瞭解其成長歷程及婚姻經驗。研究對象為某家暴中心及法院轉介之8位家庭暴力施暴者；並以質性研究的敘說探究做為研究方法、採半結構式訪談大綱，經個案書面同意後進行深度訪談，過程並以錄音方式記錄資料，將蒐集的訪談內容資料加以逐字譯，然後採敘說分析取向來建構文本。研究結果發現大部份施暴者建構出的原生家庭裡，父親扮演著威嚴的角色，對個案管教大都採嚴厲的打罵方式，而個案的求學成績表現及人際互動大多不盡理想，甚至有些個案曾經是打架、吸毒、殺人未遂的問題青年；對於挫折及壓力的因應經驗，大都不會採取溝通方式，而是使用壓抑、逃避、喝酒或是吵架等非建設性的方式。在婚姻互動方面，發現施暴者與妻子常為經濟爭吵，溝通模式都以吵架爭執呈現，導致最後演變為暴力相向。而性生活不協調亦是影響婚姻關係的重要因素之一；研究結果亦發現許多施暴者雖然對配偶有負向的評價歸因，但卻不願意接受離婚，反而期待能重修舊好，並且有的個案也願意學習溝通技巧來改善彼此的關係；同時，在婚姻衝突中，經濟問題亦佔有重要的影響力。基於以上的發現，在對施暴者的協助計劃裡可將溝通的技巧與工作的協助列入考慮的面向之一。

The purpose of this study attempted to explore the growing process and marital experiences of domestic assailants by their life stories. Eight subjects were referred from the Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Prevention Center and the court for this study. After obtaining informed consent, the in-depth interviews were conducted with subjects, and they were encouraged to express their life stories by the semi-structure guide format after obtaining informed consent. In the process of interview, the whole interviewing content would be recorded and analyzed by a narrative analysis method. The findings revealed that most subjects were beaten and scolded by their fathers who were authority characteristics, and they performed poor in the areas of academic achievement and social interaction. Some of them even committed problems with fight, murder and drug addicted. The experience of coping with frustration and stress, most subjects acted in the ways of suppressing, avoiding, alcohol using or quarreling rather than positive communicating. The results also found subjects always quarreled with their wives because of economic reason, and turned out to physical violence. In addition, the unsatisfied sexual life was the important factor to the outcome, However, We found that many domestic assailants had negative evaluation toward their partners, but couldn't accept divorce, and even preferred to reconciliation. Some domestic assailants would like to learn communication skills to improve the relationship with their partners. Another, financial problem is an important factor in the marital conflict. We suggest that communication skill training and help them how to get job should be considered in the treatment strategy and the helping program.