In traditional writings, male writers usually cannot treat the discursive basis of writing women relevant materials with basic gender equality. In contrast, Female writers did have the advantages and capability to use the same lexicons, but they rarely transcended the given social this paper proposes to Live in the Next Life, by two respective early Qing poets, Yien-suei San-ren (煙水散人) and Chen Duan-sheng (陳端生). From the point of view of different sexes' writings and their contents and characteristics, I want to analyze views of the contemporary literati towards the so-called talented women, the expectations of female writers towards themselves, and their attitudes towards writing in general. My arguments are of three levels: (1)expressive activities in writing, (2) differences in knowing the value of one's emotion and desire, and (3)the contrast of and the expectations for gender role. I hope to further analyze the difference and consciousness of these terms: gender and difference, self-expectation, use of media, search for identity, and the displacement and contrast in gender role.