What kind of chemistry would be created when a gay man faces the courtship from a heterosexual woman? How does he make proper responses to her wooing under the gaze of heterosexual society? The experiences of gay men pursued by heterosexual women being the theme, this study uses interpretive interactionism to explore the love-sexuality relations and emotional interactions that four homosexual men experienced when they are pursued by heterosexual women in their daily lives. This study describes their inner worlds and their experiences of doing intimacy relations and ways of responses. It also analyzes the personal and social meanings behind those reactions. The study found when facing the pursuit of the opposite sex, the four gay men will make the best use of the script on gender and common characteristics of the heterosexual relationship as a shield, and then decline with soft words, let the bilateral relations be able to maintain in the condition which he may grasp. For them, to comply consciously with the conventional heterosexual on the meaning of love is an effective way of "counterattack" against heterosexuality. The heterosexual love regulations that describe the gender ideology of conventional may be a poor script, but it also provides them a framework to engage with the intimacy relationship and interaction. In addition to learn the first-hand experience and knowledge, and more clearly in their own sexual desire and sexual identities, they also create a special model for the relationship between different sexual identities, thus diverts the risk and hurt resulting from coming out, and the model also becomes an important turning point for gay people to stand in the heterosexual community.