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題名:男同志伴侶關係發展歷程之研究
作者:張歆祐 引用關係
校院名稱:國立彰化師範大學
系所名稱:輔導與諮商學系所
指導教授:郭麗安
學位類別:博士
出版日期:2006
主題關鍵詞:男同志伴侶男同志伴侶關係關係發展歷程gay couplegay couple relationshipsThe developmental process of relationships
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本研究的目的在於瞭解男同志伴侶關係的發展歷程,研究者採「統整性的質性研究」(generic qualitative study)方法,以半結構式的訪談大綱,個別深度訪談五對彼此認定且有共同生活男同志伴侶,共十位研究參與者,年齡介於31-48歲之間,伴侶關係分別9-12年不等,取得對偶性的資料,採用折衷取向之資料分析策略,以關係為單位進行編碼,進行伴侶內分析與跨伴侶分析,以回答本研究問題。
研究結果發現,男同志伴侶關係發展可從階段觀點理解,可分啟始、熱戀、低潮、穩定四個主要共通階段,各階段有其階段特性,若關係中的核心衝突議題無法在關係互動中得到有效處理,低潮與穩定可能會再次發生,而有二次低潮與二次穩定兩個階段出現。
本研究結果發現男同志伴侶關係互動模式中有、理性協調的家務分工、維持獨立性的財務管理、多元模式的性生活互動、彈性對應的性別角色以及相互呼應的衝突互動。
在關係發展歷程中衝突的來源與解決方式方面,研究歸納出以理性溝通化解價值觀與理念的歧異、以迴避衝突面對性生活需求與期待的落差、以應用外在資源建立心理與生活空間界限、以分手作為威脅處理忠誠度質疑四種議題的衝突互動歷程。
男同志伴侶在人際脈絡中處理伴侶關係,其態度可分為:一、以現身創造親密;二、以隱身維持距離兩類;前者的策略又分為主動現身與被動現身,後者的策略則為掩飾與隔離。
本研究除整理研究結果並就內容從性別觀點、社會脈絡、純粹關係、多元化性模式等特色加以討論外,同時從社會脈絡反思男同志伴侶的社會處境,並對諮商心理學界及後續研究提出建議。
The purpose of this research is to reveal the developmental process within male homosexual couple’s intimate relationship. The research takes generic qualitative study approach as researching method; indeed, using semi-structure perspective to be the interview structure to in depth interview five couples who identify and commit into long term relationships and ever live together. There are ten participants, whose ages are from 31 to 48 and having 9 to 12 years relationship, join this research. In order to answer the questions of this research, the researcher takes the strategy from eclectic data analysis approach and coding unit by pair study to analyze and compare couple within and couple between data.
As a result, gay couple relationship could be categorized to four stages, which are initial stage, passionately in love, low period, and stable period. There are different features within different stages. If the core issues in conflicts cannot be solved effectively, low period and stable stage can appear again, and these two reappeared stages would cause secondary low period and stable stage.
This research also found that within gay couple relationship, the patterns of interaction have flexible sex roles to cope with different needs in a relationship such as sharing house chore, financial management independently, conflict mode, and multiple sexual interaction.
In terns of the causes of conflicts and solutions during developmental process in an intimate relationship, the researcher found out that there are four patterns that those couples tend to cope with different issues which include taking rational communication to reconcile the gap in value and belief’s differences. avoiding to directly confront to the conflicts about sexual expectation’s differences, adapting outside resources to establish psychological and living boundaries, and fourth, threatening to one another of breaking up to deal with the conflict of royal issue.
Regarding the factor that how gay couples deal with the interpersonal contacts, there are two different attitudes. They either “come out” their identity in order to be intimated with their interpersonal contacts, or “to hide“ and keep distance in front of people. About “come out” couples, there are two major strategies that are actively come out and passively come in. The “hiding” couples, their major strategies are veiling and segregating.
In spite of analyzing the data and discussing the issues based on the gender perspective, sex roles, rational communication, multiple sex behavior models and, social context, this research also provides some suggestions to psychological counseling field and further studies.
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