China has reiterated not to give up the use of force as the ultimate means to solve the Taiwan problem, but the feasibility of the military solution is highly questionable. Simply put, the cross-strait problem is a political one, also an international one, and by no means of domestic nature. As a result, there are many constraints and limitations in using military means to solve the problem. In this paper, Clausewitz's arguments about the “nature of war” will be taken as the baseline to analyze cross-strait conflicts and dilemmas faced by China if she insists in using force to solve the problem. The analysis covers international, political, economic and military aspects in the context of increasingly interactive cross-strait relations. As a matter of fact, in terms of Clausewitz's point of view, the cross-strait conflict is a duel of wills, if waging war taken as the continuation of policy and political instrument, its aim is to reach the goal by using violence. Then China's economic development and the cause of reunification of the motherland certainly will be harmed, and the impact surely will surpass its capacity of endurance. In a similarly vein, Taiwan also has to consider seriously the option of accepting the test of a war, as well as whether it has the will to embrace a long term struggle, which for sure pose much significance to its subsistence.