In traditional sociology, "family" is used to be viewed as a private domain. Thus, housework division is structurally based on gender without doubts. However, in feminist sociologists' opinion, family, as a private domain, is the major source of women oppression. The concept of dichotomy for public/privacy is questioned. This research first focuses on the relevant literature to observe and discourse. Then, in-depth interview is adopted to explore parenting experience that includes giving birth and child rearing. Integrated the interview, there are three major analytical themes: "lost of body autonomy", "entanglement of sanctified motherhood and professional value", and "dodge and control of man in parental duties". These findings indicate the plight of Taiwan women, which is mainly derived from enforcing parental duties in so-called "private" domain. The gender division for child caring shows that the government/state evades responsibility; and women's willingness and rights of choice are neglected. Finally, the concept that "government/state being mothers, mothers being government/state" is discussed.