The story of “Raise the Red Lantern” is set upon the scene of the Joe’s Mansion, which serves not only as a container with abundant cultural resources, but also as a miniature of the whole Chinese culture. The features of the Mansion exactly represent the cultural tradition of courtesy cultivation: all the wives, maids and servants are regulated within this enclosed structure. Symbols derived from the lantern such as lighting the lantern, massaging the feet, and meal ordering are treated as special codes related to the theme of cultivation as well as a metaphor of the cultivation and rules. The concealed theme of courtesy cultivation is exposed through the continuous enhancement and repetition of the rules and the symbol of the cultivation and power. All activities in the mansion can never escape from the domination of the rules. To challenge the power structure and go against the taboo is in fact the process of self-fulfillment in spirit. While doing this, Song-Lian or May-Shan can have the joy never being experienced. Moreover, they eventually find their values of existence through shaking off the bounds of the courtesy cultivation.