The aesthetic life-form of the traditional Chinese literati, which based on the principles of self-complacency and selftranscendence, has tried to withdraw from the secular-social life. Accordingly, it has constructed a personal life-world which does not interfered by social framework. The first part of this essay focuses on the topic that, how do the traditional Chinese literati regard aesthetic action as the mediation of inter-personal communication of mind in order to construct the aesthetic-social form, which, on the one hand, helps to overcome the threat of loneliness, on the other hand, escapes the prison of secular-social solidarity? The second part concerns the topic that, how do the traditional Chinese literati arrange the individual aesthetic field, as well as the social life, to place side by side on a peaceful foundation, which can help the aesthetic life-form to fulfill the idea of inter-transcendence and keep a harmonious relationship with social order?